AIDS and women in Brazil--the emerging problem. First You want to start with massaging her butt cheeks. The interview guide consisted of open-ended questions and follow-up probes developed by the co-investigators to assess the psychological, social, and cultural factors associated with anal sex, as per the study objectives. In this context, male initiative alone may not necessarily indicate a lack of female agency, but rather serve as a marker for the presence of a strong sexual script that dictates male pursuit and female acquiescence or rejection of male desire. And it sounds like you, like you said [earlier], he pleased you so much. Seidlin M, et al. On the other hand, those participants who had used a condom during anal intercourse listed the following reasons for doing so:
However, just as the sensation of physical pleasure during anal intercourse varied among participants, so did the importance that participants placed on physical pleasure alone as a motivating factor for engaging in anal intercourse.
Women who have anal sex: Pleasure or pressure? Implications for HIV prevention
It hurt and it felt good at the same time. When good sex is safer sex. The best way to ensure her that it will be painless and pleasurable is by starting slowly and patiently while creating a safe space for her. Slow is better because there is a special energy and connection that you reach once you open her pleasure pathways. Second Work your way inwards toward her anal ring sphincter muscles. When you have good collaboration, you will notice her body opening up naturally where the tension turns into exquisite pleasure.